Friday, 20 June 2014

fB psychology

facebook,twitter,linkedin,google plus and what not, man who claims himself to be a social being , is being exploited for this very nature, in the name of social networking....what are they actually ? why do we do so many things just to grab likes an comments on such platforms ? putting all sorts of posts ranging from content level zero to


hundred ! what a bull shit ! take a walk, play soccer, chess ! swim in the river (not the pool , i wouldnt advice that), have a fight or a quarrel with your friend or spouse, but use such sights judiciously ! fB is just a media, a media where our frequency of searches influence what we see, our stupidity is as such presented to the world, without any professionalism or editing, all sorts of rubbish talks, we are not concerned abt anything serious anymore, thats the point....but there are other things in life , world is not, life is not what u see in a fB post ! man is fB'ed ! just putting forward some of the psychological influences of fB,
-people present a positive self view to others when online, leading to an increase in self esteem and decrease in self control, so dont get upset if someone nearest to you most probably your mom complains you of being such a mess lately, it could be seen in your rooms order !
-users who did not personally know friends verywell believed others had better lives leading to lower self esteem, and ofcourse depression....you are hooked for entertainment or for information right, so next time go for some read (books, libraray) or watch some of your favourite films with your family or friends, not alone...again ! go out, discover your locality !
-intimate interactions lead to an elevated self esteem ! bah ...humbug ! what's d point ? huh ? self esteem, yeah its one of the ladders of needs towards reaching self actualisation , but a false one does not lead you there, you can be your king in your thoughts, i'd say it was better dreaming around late wake ups ! its said morning dreams do come true, so lets dream ! remember what dr.kalam said ? great people always had a dream to cherish ( "i have a dream"-martin luther king) that made their life a lesson for all human beings, that made great leaders, do you expect someone to lead you, its history, lead yourself !
-its an online equivalent of staring yourself at the mirror, nothing so important about your face or mind, its about how you percieve, not about how you see !
-fB is narcissism re-invented, damn i hate that word more than anything ! such people rot their lives, "this life is too short to live it just for you, but when you feel so powerless what are you gonna do ? so say what you want ....." havent you heard it ! (powerless by nellly furtado...go get some fine musical feasto !)
-fB induces a pervasive pattern of grandiosity, need for admiration and an exaggerated sense of self importance,
so long for those fB ying, venture out and make the most of your life ! im done fB ying !
Bye !

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